7. Complications

D: What I look for when I’ve been booking escorts is, yeah just physical attributes.It’s true. Um, I don’t know what kind of a person anybody is from a one page advert on the web, erm, girls lie through their back teeth on the pages I know this, girl post false pictures I know this, um, that’s one possible use for sites like UK P. Some girls don’t, all girls lie. I don’t think there’s many girls out there who….. I don’t want to be too crude but…. generally who like being fucked so many times in a day, by complete strangers which, most girls will say they do, on their advert on their adult thing, (chuckles) I don’t know many girls out there who actually do. When you’re rebooking someone for a second, third, fourth time whatever, then obviously there’s a little bit more to it than… it’s the personality and the, the way they deliver their service… The way a girl acts when you’re with her she can.. take her clothes off, lie down you have sex and you leave. Or there could be a bit of kissing, a bit of cuddling, that’s better obviously… but then that’s when emotions tart to get confused sometimes.

Most of the time it does feel strings detached … due to the intimacy of it I suppose, erm, it is inevitable sometimes I think, feelings get confused, erm..

It does complicate things. Erm, and you only have to look at the guys on uk p to see that. The girls they like, are all the girls where emotions get confused. Erm……. That doesn’t mean they dislike the girls that are a bit more, er, business like about it, but, they just don’t get the same sort of repeat custom.

I think if anyone sees an escort for anything other than a physical reason they’re deluding themselves. I’ve deluded myself on more than one occasion (laughs)

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I: Some guys get the wrong idea, you’ll.. if you give your number out which inevitably you have to text them your address, sometimes you’ll get texts out of hours after the session, them being like “oooh, oh I really enjoyed-“ ..that’s not strange that’s not- people do do that. It’s when you get the texts..when guys are like “Ooh am I in your top ten, kind of clients?” or they’ll leave you feedback that says “Oh I’m in love with you..”

E: I’ve had..I had a client um, a while back and he was quite young, kind of a similar age to me, we had similar interests we got on like a house on fire to be honest but.. he kept booking me.. and like in the end um.. decided that it just wasn’t a good idea.. through work because he was getting the wrong idea-

I:Because you have to put that idea across because it’s your job-

E: But I think some people, they come in, and they can’t.. distinguish between a girl acting like that in real life because they’re interested, and a girl acting like that because they are giving you the girlfriend experience-

I: And that’s their job.

E: And it’s their job and that’s what you’re paying for. And I can understand, it- I think it must be difficult like, if you’re a guy, who’s lonely, who’s maybe not very good with women, not very experienced, and a girl comes on and she’s treating you like you’re the best guy in the world-

I: You want to believe it, more than anything.

E: People believe what they want to believe.

I: But you kind of think they’re probably like that with everyone..

E: Yeah.. that’s the thing you never know what they’re like with anyone else, so you might think-

I: You might be like oh god someone’s like in love with me, but that could just be how they are with all the escorts they see.

E: And part of the fantasy for them is being like that. I don’t know like sometimes you’ll get someone in, and you will genuinely really get on with them. That you click with. But.. in terms of like would I ever have feelings for a client…

I: No.

E: I don’t think I would because obviously you can’t help your feelings for someone, but I would never go in…leaving myself in a position where I would let myself.. feel like that.